Cora T., Centerville High School
The Value of Resilience
“You are here to decide if your life, relationships, and world are true and beautiful enough for you. And if they are not and you dare to admit they are not, you must decide if you have the guts, the right- perhaps even the duty- to burn to the ground that which is not true and beautiful enough and get started building what is.” -Glennon Doyle
This quote beautifully illustrates one of the key concepts by which I live my life. Even if it’s difficult- even if you are concerned about the outcome, you shouldn’t be stuck in a difficult situation forever. Inevitably, you decide your reaction to these obstacles. My goal is to live a stable life where I’m doing something I love and am able to experience authentic happiness.
When I was younger, my mother always told me, “be what you want to be, and do what you want to do.” It wasn’t because she wanted me to be selfish, but because she wanted me to control my own life. Live my own story; not be influenced by outside opinions. I’ve held onto this advice, and it’s become even more imperative as I’ve grown.
One of my personal strengths is my resilience. I’ve always been able to get back up on my feet after falling down- no matter how heavy the subject. It’s important to note, however, that recovering doesn’t mean healing completely. I still have those wounds, but they’re smaller- easier to manage. They’re a part of me. Having this strength will allow me to take potentially damaging events in my future career lightly.
Another strength is my empathy and consideration of how others may see the world compared to me. One of the best things you can realize is that every single living being on Earth is different. If you learn to look at people in a positive light, you’re able to look past things you may not agree with and have more opportunities available to you.
Two individuals who greatly influence my decisions regarding my future are my parents. The way they handle money and manage the household is like a guide book to me. They take setbacks in stride. I can learn from them, and they can contribute to leading me in the right direction. Not by force, but by genuine intention. They’ve given me the freedom to do whatever I want, which allows me to build my own path.
I have learned the importance of resilience, and I will continue to perfect this skill as I grow. I don’t know where I plan to be in 5 years, but that’s okay! I know that wherever I am, I will be strong and healthy, because of the obstacles I’ve faced and the people I’ve learn from.
